Lovemaking Tips for Transgender Admirers

Do not underestimate the power of real appreciation and passion.

When it comes to the topic of the sexual life of transgender people, there is always a sense of fetishization or shame on it if someone is talking about it. That is also the reason why people hardly talk about this subject in an open and positive way. Therefore, for most transgender people, it is also rare to see someone show their passion and appreciation towards their body and sexual life even when they are on a trans dating. Actually, people do not know that many transgender people enjoys people talking about their body parts and lovemaking life in a positive way. It is always good to hear some compliment no matter what. It can make them feel that they are attractive to someone and also boost their confidence, but the most important of all is that you need to show genuinely appreciation and respect.

Rethink your language and the way you perceive a body.

Just because they have a certain body parts, that does not mean they want to use it or use it in the way it is supposed to or you think it should be. The same applies to language. You might like to say some dirty language during lovemaking process but try to avoid some gendered language if that matters to your transgender partner. Consider these as part of your conversation before bedding. Do not be afraid or embarrassed to talk about it, not only on things you like, but also things that you do not prefer. Using the right language and the right way to be with a transgender woman or trans man.

Come up with new names to call the body parts.

If you don’t like the usual names people used to call the body parts, such as cock or vagina, you can think up new names as replacement. I will leave the imagination to you and will not limit it. This is also something worth to be talked about. Do it together. It should be something that can turn you both on, not shut someone out when hearing it.

Clothing can be sexy too.

In movies and many actual cases, we often get used to get completely naked when making love with someone. However, when you are going to sleeping with a transgender woman or trans man, it can be even sexier to keep something on than being completely naked. For example, if you are sleeping with a transgender woman who have some issue with her boobs, then maybe you can keep her shirts on. It is more gender-affirming and able to perfect the experience. If you are making love with a transgender woman who have not done her surgeries and you find it is kind of annoying when looking at her male genitals, you can suggest her to wear something called gaffs, which is used to keep their male genitals where they belong and not causing any trouble. If you are a trans man and wishing to make love with another woman, instead of using sexual toys, you can wear a cock underwear.